Bat Mitzvah Invitations: 9 Gorgeous Designs + Wording Tips
Mazel tov! Your little girl is all grown up, and you’re picking out Bat Mitzvah invitations. Chances are, you’ve spent the last six months to a year planning for this milestone.
After Shabbat morning services, you may be hosting a kiddush reception, or a light meal in the synagogue’s hall or at another venue outside of the sanctuary. Or like many families, perhaps you’ll host a separate reception after the service or later that evening. These receptions vary widely — from intimate dinners to big, extravagant bashes.
Because there are many elements to the tradition, it’s important your Bat Mitzvah invite covers all the bases — especially for your non-Jewish guests who may not be familiar with Bat Mitzvah customs. But that doesn’t mean you can’t put a more modern, contemporary spin on things too by incorporating stylish and up-to-date designs.
We’ve put together this guide on Bat Mitzvah invitations to help you figure out what to include and how to customize them. Read on to explore everything from Bat Mitzvah invitation wording to beautiful designs with traditional and modern elements.
Bat Mitzvah Invitation Wording: Tips on What to Say
Design: Becky Nimoy Stationery
Invitation Inspiration: Marble Mitzvah invitation
Your Bat Mitzvah invitation is guests’ key to what they should expect for your daughter’s celebration. You’ll want to consider everything from formality to etiquette. If your wording is very formal (for example, spelling out dates instead of using numerals), this is a good clue that guests are attending a fancy event.
Here are some things to keep in mind when writing your Bat Mitzvah invitations.
Address Etiquette
If you’re inviting only Jewish guests, chances are they’ll be familiar with Bat Mitzvah customs. But this momentous occasion should be shared with all the important people in your child’s life. This may include those of different faiths.
For friends who may not be familiar with Bar & Bat Mitzvah etiquette, you might use your invitation to let them know you’re happy to answer any questions. Or include helpful guest etiquette tips to help them prepare and feel comfortable during the celebration.
Event Details
The invitation also needs to include all essential information. This may seem self-explanatory, but it can get complicated if there are multiple celebrations and venues, or if you’re hosting one formal party right after the ceremony and a more modern or casual celebration later.
To start, you’ll want to include the date, time, and place of the ceremony.
If your reception directly follows the Torah reading, you’ll only need a one-line addition. For example: Kiddush lunch to follow in the hall.
If you’re planning an epic bash at your home later in the week to celebrate with friends and family, include information on the:
- Dress code
- Activities
- Party theme
If the reception involves a change of venue or is at a later time in the evening, add the specific time and address.
Keep in mind that some families may only be able to attend part of the event, or perhaps you’re only inviting close family to the reception. By utilizing Greenvelope’s guest tagging feature and filtering locations and survey questions to only match guests of a specific tag, you can be sure to get an accurate guest count for each specific part of the celebration.
Additionally, be sure to include a specific RSVP response date. It’s a good idea to set this date at least three to four weeks before the celebration. This will give you enough time to notify the caterer or your place of worship if they require this information.
Sample Bat Mitzvah Invitation Wording
Just like other party invitations you’ve sent in the past, Bat Mitzvah invites can range in formality. It should contain the child’s first name as well as the middle if you prefer. It will typically say that they are “called to the Torah” and then include relevant details. You’ll also want to add the names of the hosts.
Formal Invitation Wording Example
Please share in our great joy
as our daughter Ruth Rachel
(optional Hebrew name)
is called to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah
Saturday, the twelfth of April
two thousand twenty-five
at nine o’clock in the morning
Congregation Rodeph Sholom
2385 Park Avenue
Bridgeport, Connecticut
Kiddush lunch reception to follow
Rebecca and Josh Aarons
Including your daughter’s middle name and spelling out the date and time gives the invitation a more formal feel. Etiquette rules have relaxed in recent years so you have more flexibility on how to word the invite, but you’ll always want to double check spelling and location details for accuracy.
Informal Invitation Wording Example
We are overjoyed to share that
our daughter Ruth
(optional Hebrew name)
is called to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah
Saturday, April 12, 2025
at 9:00 a.m.
Congregation Rodeph Sholom
2385 Park Ave.
Bridgeport, Connecticut
Kiddush lunch reception to follow
Rebecca and Josh Aarons
A few tweaks like abbreviating the date and address can give the invitation a more relaxed feel. There are many phrases you can use at the top, but they usually focus on love and pride, such as:
- We invite you to share in celebration
- With love and joy in our hearts, you’re invited
- We would be delighted if you would join us
Themed Bat Mitzvah Invitation Wording Example
Design: Signature Greenvelope
Also, keep in mind that you can opt for a party theme. In this case, your invitation wording can be less traditional and more in line with your celebration. Include all of the important details, but have a little fun with it.
This Allison in Wonderland-themed invitation says, “Don’t be late or it’s off with your heads!”
Let your daughter guide the theme and party style to ensure she’s excited about her celebration. In your invite, include a short mention of the party theme like:
In lieu of a Kiddush lunch reception, we’ll be hosting an Enchanted Garden-themed party in our backyard following the ceremony.
9 Gorgeous Bat Mitzvah Invitation Designs
Just like your invitation wording, Bat Mitzvah invitations should set the tone for your event. If it’s formal, you may want to opt for a traditional design. If you’re having a laid-back affair or a themed celebration, a more contemporary style is in order. Consider these popular design ideas for every type of celebration.
1. Rose Gold Star Invitation
Design: Phrosne Ras
Any design with a Star of David is the perfect way to acknowledge this religious rite of passage. But that doesn’t mean it has to be overly formal.
This Rose Gold Star invitation features a shimmery rose gold foil star over a feminine watercolor background. It features a contemporary flourish but also points to the important religious aspect.
2. Torah Scroll Invitation
Design: Signature Greenvelope
There are also plenty of options that keep the focus on religion and feature formal, yet modern tones. This Torah Scroll design has a traditional Torah watermark background. There is also room for Hebrew lettering and plenty of text for celebration details.
3. Floral Bat Mitzvah Invitation
Design: Claudia Owen
Since a Bat Mitzvah honors a special young lady in your life, why not opt for a feminine design? This floral party invitation suite features flourishing calligraphy and watercolor blooms.
4. Effervescent Mitzvah Invitation
Design: Shari Margolin Design
Another great modern Bat Mitzvah invitation idea is to put the focus on the guest of honor with a stylish photo card. This unique design has room for a great snapshot with stylized text to announce the occasion. Gold foil effervescent bubbles add a modern feel.
5. Die Cut Torah Invitation
Design: Laura Bolter Design
The Torah is another religious motif that fits perfectly in a Bat Mitzvah invite design. This customizable template features a die cut Torah with gold foil accents and a matching envelope liner. Available in six saturated, ombre colors, it’s contemporary and bold, just like your daughter. Choose from purple, green, and pink hues, or dream up your own color to match a themed Bat Mitzvah.
6. Summer Stripes Invitation
Design: Ashley DeMeyere Design
If pastel hues are more your thing, consider this summery Bat Mitzvah invitation. Featuring soft shades of pink, purple, or green, it’s ideal for either formal or more casual celebrations. Include important event details about the big day on the front, and add religious text or a short story about the honoree on the supported backside.
7. Center Stage Initials Invitation
Design: Claudia Owen
A monogram can instantly elevate the look of a design, making it more personalized. With this colorful monogram design, you can ask guests to join a joyful celebration of your daughter’s coming to the Torah. Bold initials take center stage and a striped envelope liner adds a fun vibe. Creative colorways will have guests excited to attend this special moment.
8. Candyland Invitation
Design: TM Stationery
It’s your child’s special day! Celebrate with a sweet Bat Mitzvah theme and have guests counting down the days to the unforgettable party with this creative invite. Featuring lollipops, gumdrops, and confetti, it’s sweet and fun — perfect for a Candyland-themed celebration, whether it’s your daughter’s Bat Mitzvah or her birthday party.
9. Hologram Pop Invitation
Design: Colin Cowie
Whether you’re hosting a religious celebration for a Bat Mitzvah or a holiday party, holograms are trendy and in style. With this hologram design, you can invite guests to attend your daughter’s coming to the Torah or a Hanukkah party. The invite is entirely customizable, making it easy to adapt it to your event. For a Bat Mitzvah, add the ceremony details and any information about the after-party.
Creating a Bat Mitzvah She’ll Remember
You’ve done all the legwork to create a Bat Mitzvah celebration your daughter will cherish. The last bit of planning involves your invitations.
Browse our selection of digital invitations and select a design and wording that is in tune with the formality of your celebration. Plus, since Greenvelope’s cards are customizable, if you happen to like the style of an engagement party, bridal shower, or wedding invitation, you can change up the text to turn it into a Bat Mitzah invitation.
Once you’ve chosen the invitation, send it off via SMS and email with a few clicks, and easily keep track of digital RSVP cards right in the platform — no need to keep track of physical response cards.
For more Bat Mitzvah planning tips — including celebration themes, decor, and food — continue browsing our Stationer’s blog. It’s a helpful resource for all of life’s biggest celebrations.
