{"id":12435,"date":"2022-07-18T21:20:54","date_gmt":"2022-07-19T02:20:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.greenvelope.com\/blog\/?p=12435"},"modified":"2022-07-19T06:45:09","modified_gmt":"2022-07-19T11:45:09","slug":"how-to-ask-for-honeymoon-money-instead-of-gifts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.greenvelope.com\/blog\/how-to-ask-for-honeymoon-money-instead-of-gifts","title":{"rendered":"How to Ask For Honeymoon Money Instead of Gifts: Tips on Etiquette"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Whether you\u2019re off on a road trip around the USA or to an exotic tropical island, planning your honeymoon is always an exciting moment. While you might have big ideas about where to stay and what to do, perhaps you could use a little help with your budget.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

As such, consider asking loved ones to contribute towards a <\/span>honeymoon fund<\/span>. If you want to wave goodbye to <\/span>physical items<\/span> and say hello to extra funds for your big getaway, here\u2019s how to ask for honeymoon <\/span>money instead of gifts<\/span>.\u00a0<\/span>
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How to Ask for Honeymoon <\/b>Money Instead of Gifts:<\/b> The Do\u2019s and Don\u2019ts<\/b><\/h2>\n

Knowing how to express your preferences isn\u2019t always easy. Here\u2019s your simple guide on how to ask for honeymoon <\/span>money instead of gifts<\/span> in a <\/span>polite way<\/span> so you can focus on other areas of <\/span>wedding planning<\/span>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Create a <\/b>Honeymoon Fund<\/b><\/h3>\n

These days, you don\u2019t have to stick with a traditional <\/span>wedding registry<\/span>. You can opt for a honeymoon or <\/span>cash registry<\/span> instead. Like <\/span>traditional registries<\/span>, these contain information about how your guests can contribute. You can also share details like what you plan to do with the money, alternative ways to contribute, or a message of appreciation.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

There are lots of different<\/span> honeymoon registry<\/strong> websites<\/strong><\/span><\/a> out there. Take a look at a few different options to find one that suits you best. Look for a website that not only lets you list your <\/span>registry information<\/span> but also helps you create a more personalized, fun experience for your guests.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Tell People Your Plans<\/b><\/h3>\n

It\u2019s hard for some couples to ask for money, especially if it\u2019s out of the ordinary for you. Instead, reframe it as a request for others to help you achieve a life-changing adventure or by telling people about your plans.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Focus on how you\u2019d love to use the money for the <\/span>down payment<\/span> on an incredible excursion, or to upgrade your flights on your first vacation as <\/span>newlyweds<\/span>. Being specific helps your guests imagine the impact their gift will have, and you can get excited about your excursion after you tie <\/span>the knot<\/span>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Share a Poem<\/b><\/h3>\n

Most of us don\u2019t make a habit of sharing poems every day, but<\/span> wedding poems<\/strong><\/span><\/a> are a popular choice. A poem is a wonderful way to express your preference for honeymoon <\/span>money instead of gifts<\/span>, and it works well if you\u2019re nervous about saying \u201c<\/span>cash gifts<\/span> only please.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

We\u2019ve shared some ideas for <\/span>honeymoon fund<\/span> poems below, but you can also have a go at creating your own. Remember, it doesn\u2019t have to be complicated or even rhyme \u2014 sometimes the silliest poems are the best if they reflect who you are.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Keep It Simple<\/b><\/h3>\n

Some couples prefer to be more direct and avoid poems altogether. It\u2019s more than OK to let your guests know you\u2019d love <\/span>honeymoon contributions<\/span> as a <\/span>wedding present<\/span> in a more minimalist way.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

If you feel like a poem isn\u2019t a good fit for you or the formality of your wedding, choose something more simple. Explore our wording ideas below, or add a simple line to your <\/span>wedding website<\/span> that directs people towards your <\/span>cash gift registry<\/span>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Limit Your <\/b>Gift Registry<\/b><\/h3>\n

Even if you\u2019d prefer <\/span>cash gifts<\/span> instead of <\/span>physical gifts<\/span>, there will always be some people who would prefer to send you something from a <\/span>traditional registry<\/span>. Make this easy for them by setting up a <\/span>wedding registry<\/span>, but limiting the number of items on it. Choose items that you can take with you, or add <\/span>gift cards<\/span> that you can spend on things while you\u2019re away.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe you don\u2019t want toasters, but a pair of sunglasses would make the perfect accessory for your tropical honeymoon. Instead of towels and linen, you could list skiing equipment to take away with you to the Alps. This is a practical and thoughtful way to blend <\/span>traditional registry etiquette<\/span> with practical gifts that complement your honeymoon.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t Ask for Money on Your <\/b>Wedding Invites<\/b><\/h3>\n
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Avoid mentioning <\/span>wedding gifts<\/span> on your invites \u2014 that includes <\/span>monetary gifts<\/span>. Use the space on your <\/span>wedding invitations<\/a><\/strong> exclusively for the most relevant details of your <\/span>special day<\/span>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Your <\/span>wedding website<\/span> or details page is the perfect place for your <\/span>wedding guests<\/span> to find your <\/span>gift registry<\/span>, or how to donate towards your <\/span>honeymoon fund<\/span>. This can also be home to other details, such as venue directions, nearby lodging options, and more details about the dress code.<\/span><\/p>\n

Make It Fun<\/b><\/h3>\n

One bonus of asking for honeymoon <\/span>money instead of gifts<\/span> is that you can add fun new ways for your guests to interact with your celebration. Rather than simply dropping off a gift or <\/span>wedding card<\/span> at a table, they can feel like they\u2019re part of your honeymoon vacation.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Set up a <\/span>cash fund<\/span> where people can sponsor or contribute to specific parts of your vacation \u2014 like your first dinner together, a guided tour, a spa day, or a hotel upgrade. Create options that cover a range of price points so people can choose a gift that matches their budget and interests.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Keep People Updated<\/b><\/h3>\n

In addition to asking <\/span>family members<\/span> and friends to help you enjoy the best honeymoon ever, look for ways to keep people updated on how the planning is going. Share updates on your <\/span>wedding website<\/span> as you choose your hotel, decide on excursions, or plan your holiday wardrobe. You could also hold off on sharing too many updates and instead share a few cute honeymoon snaps once you\u2019re back home.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Honeymoon Money Request Wording Ideas<\/b><\/h2>\n

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You\u2019re comfortable with the idea of asking for <\/span>wedding money<\/span> and know how you want your registry set up. All that\u2019s left to do now is to find the right words to share with your guests.<\/span><\/p>\n

Here\u2019s how to ask for honeymoon <\/span>money instead of gifts<\/span>, whether you want something casual, formal, or in the form of a poem.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Casual Requests<\/b><\/h3>\n

You don\u2019t have to use a lot of words to get your message across. Here are some short and sweet ways to<\/span> ask for money instead of gifts<\/a><\/strong> in a casual but polite way:<\/span><\/p>\n